O.K., let’s face it… I have a weight problem. I am working harder than ever to be healthy for me and for my three beautiful girls. I have at various times in my life been totally o.k. with who I am and have been totally disgusted with myself! Today I know that I accept myself, I love who I am as a person and at the same time, I need to continue to work on the issue at hand. My health. As for looks, I think I look pretty darn good considering. And as I talk to others who have a weight problem and try to encourage them they usually say something like this… “but you just carry yourself so well”… I hope so, and this is how I am able to do so. Confidence. Plain, simple confidence. My confidence isn’t denial about my weight, it is the knowing that “I am smart, I am kind and I am inportant” (The Help). I am the best me I can be and if someone has a problem with me it is THEIR problem. I think I’ll make some buttons for a reminder to me and for all my friends who need a reminder. here, wear this